Well, to each his own.
My transition from the Dishplayer 7200 + Model 5000 rcvr (neither of which would support my locals, so I bailed) to DirecTivos has been a good one. I was no fair-weather friend as I was a "Charlie cheerleader" from 1996 to 2003 (I still have my original model 2000 receiver gathering dust somewhere).
I think it comes down to your TV mentality: If you're mainly into channel surfing live TV you'll find the Tivo/DirecTivo needlessly complex. If you're into "always something to watch that it has recorded" then you'll love the Tivo features and find it superior to a less feature-rich DVR. I
never consult any TV guide or external listing... I have my my season passes set and my wishlists will auto-record shows with certain titles, actors or keywords. Thus, I don't channel surf at all anymore except to scan through a few movie channels for the next week or so and select ones to be recorded (very easily done via the Tivo-style guide).
The guide:Yes it's terrible slow if you use the standard matrix-type guide. If you switch to the "Tivo style" guide it's reasonably fast. Functionally, I prefer the Tivo style to the regular matrix guide anyway.
Hackability:This is what has me 100% sold on the DirecTivo experience. The easiest hacks are increasing hard drive space - and, except for the new R10 series, you can enable the USB ports on the back for networking which opens up a lot of possibilities.
Via these hacks I can
- Access my home DirecTivos over the internet to list/add recordings, wishlists, season passes, etc.
- Go to a PC in my home and have the DirecTivo stream pre-recorded programs to my desktop
- Play MP3 audio files and View family photos offered up from a PC on the DirecTivo
- Move/play recordings from one DVR to the other
I don't think there is any one "right" provider/box - it just depends on what you want.
Added: See attached files for screenshots of a few TivoWebPlus menus.