It's not about "going to church." It's about your fellowship and worship. What group do you fellowship and worship with on a weekly basis? In the Bible "church" never meant building, it always meant a group of believers who gathered together (daily in homes or other places) to worship, fellowship and encourage others as well as learn the Bible. If you are not worshiping and fellowshiping, how are you going to minister to others, which is a command of God? For those looking for the prefect church, forget it. It doesn't exist. If you joined, being a fallable human, you would ruin it by attending as any of us woud. If you are looking for a church w/out hypocrites, forget, it. It doesn't exist. There are always going to be people who pretend in all walks of life. It certainly doesn't keep people home from other avenues such as work and entertainment, as we all know there are hypocrites in those places as well.
I also wonder if you are not attending church, how are you being "part of the Body?" Christ has said we are given gifts to use in the Body and in the world. What are your gifts God gave you and how are you using them? If you aren't, you are a lazy servant, and you know what the Bible says about that. God doesn't "need" your attendance, your money or your worship. He craves a relationship with you and a fellowship with you. In turn He has given us local groups to worship together and learn together as a blessing so we can grow in our knowledge and usefulness to God. Working for God, belonging to a regular fellowship and having a relationship to God are not burdens, they are blessings, given to us by grace from the hand of God. For those not accepting such blessings, you are truly missing out by your excuses. If a church is not serving God, change. You may have to change several times, but keep in prayer and read the Scriptures and trust God to put you where He wants you if you are open to it.