by signed up with Dish to use their service you agree to abide by the rules they set out. Apparently you don't think you need to live by those rules, so yeah, in my opinion, that make you arrogant. You think you are above the rules.
Are they ripping you off? Then go somewhere else. No one is holding a gun to your head to stay, and as you have stated, Direct "encourages you" to take their stuff on the road. So why not head on over and head on out!?!
What bothers me are people who know what the rules are, and because for whatever reason don't like them, think they then don't have to play by them. Not you???
If you think you are so right, why don't you call Dish and tell them what you are doing and want to do and see how far you get? My guess is that you won't, won't call that is.
If "Holy Rollers" in your definition means not stealing from a company and following the rules that they have set out, then I am proud to wear that honor, but then again from the way you talk the word honor probably isn't in vocabulary! Just my observation.