Lots of good input here. I'll try to add to it a bit and re-itterate some others. 41 is a poor signal or 'connection quality' reading. It should change [increase] when a good connection is made to an lnb, [ if the setup data is correct] even if it is pointed at the ground. Be sure to verify the ~13 or 18 vdc at the STB input connector and lnb end. Look for damaged or crushed places on the coax, poor crimps etc. Make sure there is one continous run of coax from the box to the STB, no slices, splitters, switches, etc. The setup for that lnb will affect this reading too.
Remove as many variables as possible. put the dish on the pole w/o the posititoner first. Know your true south direction, and become familiar with the appx relative locations of a few key birds. The Echo circular sats are very stong and evenly spaced across the Americas. As pointed out, the LO/IF/LNB Freq varies on which LNB you have. The menu description also varies by mfgr as well. Purchased for TFTA in the US, you probably have a LNB that uses a value of 10.750, regardless of what it is called. Your vendor docs should provide this info. If you have a circular LNB for some reason, it is an 11250, and will not work for TFTA service. Linear LNBs usually will pick up circular signal, probably due to the higher strength, but circulars dont see the lower powered linear signals. The sat rx freqs that you enter are critical as well. Dont expect the factory defaults, if any to be valid. The 1st entry in the table is likely the one it uses to display signal on the satellite setup page. With a single lnb for input you need no switch config, set this all to off or none. Arm youself with a valid freq list for the sats you want to lock onto. There is a proggy called Channelmaster that allows channel data editing for some stb's. I dont know if your is supported, but if so, you can build a basic sat/freq table of known good 'markers' and dl it to your box if supported.
Do not over tighten or undertighten the mount while manually panning. Too loose = too sloppy, and too tight = over stressing the assy and 'springback affect' on small movements. This goes for the elevation adjustments too. A bit of vasoline on the movable points/pole will make for a smoother pan at small increments. Allow at least 1-2 seconds for the rx to lock before proceeding to the next incremental move. Keep the vasoline to a min and you can mark good hits on the pole w/ a sharpie for temp reference points. Dont go for precision at this point as much as proving the HW and the data setup. Once you've verified the setup and a few key markers points, step back and look at each successful position, make notes of sig quality, then set the assy up w/ the motor and do it all over again, tweaking the elevation.
It is a task that demands patience, but 5 days is wrong. The guy that said all day was.....well. I'll be nice. Suffice it to say a few hrs tops is all you need to be up and running sitting on the couch wearing the remote out. Preparation is the key. Have as many variable out of the equation as possible, and the actual pointing becomes a trivial task. Good luck, and welcome to the hobby...........dont give up, there are lots of knowledgable and helpfull folks here that want nothing more than to see a fellow TFTA'er succeed.