Success at last !!!!!!!! Jim S and ynnedibanez hit the nail on the head.
I went outside and aimed the dish for the best possible signal I could get.
Then I unscrewed the lnb mount and freehand moved around up down forward back the LNB along the arm of the dish and boom I got q in the mid 30's and locked on solid to G19. I fine tuned everything and got the exact strongest spot and tigthened up the LNB, bent the mount bracket slightly and used 2 washers to raise it a little and what I have a lock on every G19 transponder listed on lyngsat. My strongest transponder is 12090 and I am getting S of 80 and Q of 65. A few transponders have a Q of 50 - 52 and most of the rest are aroun 35 - 37. I have fine tuned the skew and azimuth and elevation with extreme precision and tightened down everything. Do these Q numbers sound like what I should be getting on G19 from a dish500+ 30"x24" elliptical with an XTREME II LNB and a Viewsat Ultra STB from Florida 34741 area? Or am I still missing something else that should be getting me higher Q numbers?
Everyone's help was GREATLY appreciated. I feel like I am now ready to go out and conquer the rest of the sats in the sky

it will be lots of loosening and tightening and turning manually without a motor though.....At least I learnt the right way and hard way from experience now and even understand the extreme importance of focal point and focal length which I had zero experience on from before. Now I think I am well groomed and prepared to step up to better dish and LNB's and motor in the future when I can afford it. I will be going directly to a 90 cm dish I think.
So what is the sat with the most feeds I should try to aim at next with the most English language stuff on it? Don't forget to give some thoughts on my G19 signal and quality numbers I quoted above.
THANKS to all of you!