Try
http://www.2150.com/broadcast/ input your zip code in the second link to get declination and lat/lon.
Looks like there are several independents near (west) you, but best bet is from Connecticut (Bridgeport, New Haven and New London).
New York is 70 miles west, not easy to receive, but I'd give it a try (many say 60 miles is the practical limit for DTV).
Antenna, you need a deep fringe antenna with a preamplifier, and possible a rotator, if you want to look both north and west. I recommend a Channel Master 4228 with a CM7777 preamp, and a channel master rotator.
There are only 2-3 VHF digitals around you but they are high VHF and the CM4228 is satisfactory in high VHF.