Ok, I haven't received the items I ordered yet, so don't consider this an official endorsement! Stay tuned for the end results! However, since I've had multiple PM's asking me, here's my sources and experiences thus far:
The 36" dish I ordered (obviously) from 3ABN. Others have given some feedback about how long it takes to receive, what the quality is like, etc, so I don't think I have to say anything else. $50 for a 90cm dish, shipped? SWEET
The Visionsat IV200 PVR Plus I got off eBay. The seller was satbusters, who have 99% feedback. I have nothing much to say about them until I receive the receiver, except that they shipped promptly via UPS Ground and is due to arrive the 16th.
The DMS SG2100 motor, Invacom QPH-031 LNBF, DMS Diseqc 4x1 switch all came from a single eBay seller: kj189. I know some of you have mixed feelings or are hesitant about purchasing through eBay, so here's my take. I myself am an eBay Power Seller. If you buy carefully and do your homework, 99.9% of the time (IMHO) you won't have any problem there. The seller I bought from appeared very customer-oriented. He has a 99.8% feedback rating, and some DIRT cheap prices on what I needed. Plus, here's a tidbit that may help you when ordering...
I asked kj189 if he would combine shipping on the items I was planning on purchasing. Being an FTA-addict idiot, I didn't check my email before purchasing everything a few hours later. He had written back indicating the positive, asking what I needed. Whoops. So I replied and said I had already ordered and paid for everything, so I guess it was too late. He responded saying they could include some free stuff (splitters or whatever from his store) in my order, just "please reply soon because we ship daily."
After browsing his store, I picked out three smallish items I could use and listed that any of those would be fine, whichever was up to him and thanks. His reply stated that all the items I listed would be included with my order; and as he advertises, it was shipped that day (within 24 hours of payment). I'm very impressed by the experience thus far. All items were shipped together from Texas via FedEx (I was supplied the tracking number automatically) and is due to arrive here on the 15th... less than a week from when I ordered
I've included no direct linking because I'm not sure what is allowed. I'm sure you can find everything by what I've described. Sorry I couldn't get to anyone's PM's, I've been camping all weekend and only just got home tonight. Hope this helps you all!