Yes wives can be a funny bunch. I try to keep it simple for my wife ( I LIE

) and tell her it is wired so the TV speakers will not work. I say we have to chose between 5.1 or the TV speakers and since we have 3 grand in surround sound equipment she makes the obvious choice, dirty... yes, but it works for me!
I am glad that the onkyo lets me relabel the inputs for whatever I want so I made video 1 D* and video 2 DVD - so it is easy for her. I have laser disk run through the DVD input. and Xbox through the CD input. But when you hit the button it says the actual name of the component of the display.
I do not want to listen to anything through $20 speakers built into a TV.